Thursday, February 6, 2014

The Beckoning of Brass


One of the things I like most about Mexicans is their love for celebrating life. Fiestas, fireworks, and "la banda municipal" are engrained in the very fabric of the society. It is rare that a day passes without the blaring bellows of brass beckoning you to come join in the celebration.
It is amazing how the bommp, bommmp, bomp of a tuba catches your attention. If the tuba doesn't get you, then the cohetes will. Cohetes are a type of fireworks that have no cascade of brilliant colors, but rather a deafening and near heart stopping explosion that explains why you don't see a lot of crystal ware in restaurants here. The brass band and the cohetes are an aural guide and open invitation to a community gathering that is meant to be shared.
Souvenir stand
Most of the time, the fiesta goes hand in hand with a religious holiday. But the ritual and reverence is accompanied by a convivencia, a social event that brings people together as family and friends. And it always includes children; they are at the center of most everything. It does not take a lot of money to enjoy community. There are things that people will, however, spend their hard earned money on, like a picture of their child with "La Virgen de Guadalupe", or a ice cold "nieve" from the local ice cream vendor. 

Another hallmark of a true community celebration is monos de calenda, giant paper maché structures with a frame made of carrizo, a bamboo like material. The woman monos are always very well endowed and the men mustached and handsome. I was very fortunate to have met José, a local folk artist who makes monos. He was very involved in la Fiesta de Nuestro Señor de Esquipullas at la Iglesia de Carmen Alto, the church 50 meters from my apartment. He makes the monos and teaches the neighborhood kids to dance in them. The neighborhood kids are more than happy to climb inside the monos and whirl around the plaza with reckless abandon. José is a true example of a folk artist. He does his art out of a love for his community and the rich traditions of his homeland.
José bailando con una vecina

The celebration of Nuestro Señor de Esquipullas was an all day event, not just once, but two consecutive Sundays. The banda municipal and monos were going full throttle from ten in the morning until ten at night. But there were breaks to allow for a rest in the shade in between dances. There was time for vendors to walk through the crowd trying to earn the few pesos a day that allows them to survive, selling chewing gum and cigarettes to members of the gathering. It wouldn't be a fiesta without them.
Every good Mexican fiesta ends with an unforgettable display of fireworks. It can't be any other other way. Hours are spent in the preparation for the culminating event of the evening. Castillos (castles) are built with pyrotechnic precision, works of art that are meant to be destroyed in minutes to fulfill the hopes and expectations of the crowd. As my friend, Bob remarked, "looks like a Mexican version of "Burning Man".
So the next time someone tells you it is too dangerous to travel to Mexico, that the drug cartels with kidnap and decapitate you, just tell them that a brass band is beckoning you and you have a gang of strong armed monos to protect you.


Castillos awaiting ignition





Sunday, January 5, 2014

A Time for Sunshine

A Sunrise for Marie (or from Marie!)
Three short years ago, Joa, Quena, our dearest friends, and I sat helplessly awaiting the unavoidable visit of "La Catrina".http://www.lacatrinaquartet.com/what_is_la_catrina.html For over a week, we had been told by the hospice nurse that this would most likely be Marie's last night, that she had no strength left to make it through the night. Goodbyes were said again and our plan was in place to get Joa and Quena back into our room at the moment of Marie's departure. And each following morning for a week, Marie awoke with a mischievous smile and asked me, "Am I dead yet?" One morning, however, she awake in a rather serious state. She told me in no uncertain terms that
"Am I dead yet?"
today was the day she was leaving. "Now", I asked. "Yes" was her determined reply. So I woke Joa and Quena and we all gathered on the bed to share our final moments together. After a while, Marie told us she needed to be alone to do this, and asked us to leave, which we did. We discreetly checked on her from time to time as she lay on the bed with her eyes closed. Finally after a few hours I saw that her eyes were open and walked into the room. "It's not easy to die!" she complained. So I proposed to get her some mango and pineapple chunks to suck on and she accepted, although somewhat disappointed. It was not her style to give up without having gotten what she had aimed for. This, however, was out of her control. Not even a hard-headed Bretonne could outsmart "La Catrina".



Bon Voyage Marie
But weeks did not turn into months, and on January 9, 2011, Marie was able to let go and Move On. It was a cold, dreary, winter day. There had been many of them leading up to this moment. But it was a relief to all of us, including Marie. The painful days of watching cancer take someone you love so dearly were over for us. And Marie was free of a body that was holding her hostage. Despite the pain involved, it was a moment to celebrate.

The thought of Quena, Joa and me reuniting the following Christmas season in the throes of an Oregon winter was not inviting. We decided that whenever possible we would meet in a warm, sunny place to remember the winter of 2010-11. Marie would be with us no matter were we were, and she always did love love escaping the States at this time of year. So, Voila! A new family tradition was established.


"El Grupo" - Puerto Angel, Oaxaca
December 2011 found the three of us happily reunited in Puerto Angel, Oaxaca. We were staying with Alonso and Aurelia, some old friends that Marie and I had met  twelve years earlier. Quena and their daughter, Magda, had spent a good time together on the beach, and Alonso showed us how to dye wool with la caracol purpura, a snail that lives on the rocks off the coast. It was a great way to spend our first year without Marie. The Pacific was lukewarm and inviting. Joa was able to get some good waves in Zipolite, Mexico's renowned nudist beach, (he wore a suit surfing!), and we entertained ourselves with an ample supply of Negra Modelos and card games of 22, of which I was the clear victor (it's my blog J & Q!).
22 on the beach

The last two years we have all been in sunny places, but not together. Joa is working in Mali with Save the Children and cannot get to Mexico during Christmas. Quena has come the last two years and we have spent wonderful times in San Agustanillo, a laid back beach not far from Puerto Angel. We stay in a dream apartment with an unbelievable terrace that overlooks the sea. Marie would have sketched for hours there.
La Mora Posada - San Agustanillo, Oaxaca
Joa and Evans celebrating in Bamako
Even though Joa cannot be with us, he has managed to find time to stay happy and celebrate in a way that would have made Marie proud of him. 

Hopefully next winter we will be able to rendez-vous in a place where the sun warms our hearts and let's us remember all the good things that happened to the four of us during the hardest time of our lives. Even in death, there are good times to be had, laughter in the air, mezcal mingled with tears. "La Catrina" would have it no other way!

Happy Anniversary, Marie. Hope you are filling up volumes of sketchbooks and meeting scores of interesting and unique people. You always do. And if we all get together in the sun next winter, besides playing 22, we will even play a few games of "Bull-sheet" in your honor!


Ana, ice cream vendor, Puerto Angel
Empanada vendor - Puerto Escondido, Oaxaca




















Pescadores, Puerto Angel
Marie's Sunset, 2013

Friday, December 13, 2013

Donde las Calles Cantan: Where Streets Sing

406 Pino Suarez: Courtyard view from my apartment
On November 19th, I arrived in Oaxaca and went directly to an apartment that my friend, Amalia, had found for me before my arrival. It was a perfect place to start my new sejour in Oaxaca. I have a one bedroom apartment with a small kitchen, bathroom, and living room on the second floor. It is very centrally located, a few blocks from Santo Domingo and a ten minute walk to the zocalo, one of my nightly destinations for a delicious "nieve" (sorbet), my current favorite being tamarindo. A few blocks down the street is a recently opened "marisqueria" where thirty pesos gets you five fish tacos and another twenty five an ice cold Bohemia Oscura beer. Not only is the food fresh and
Pescado Rock Marisqueria, Pino Suarez & Murguia
"sabroso", but the decor of the restaurant is "heavy vinyl" with album covers of the Giants of Rock, the Beatles, Stones, Kiss, etc. adorning the walls. It is not necessarily my favorite dining music, but it does make me finish my meal quickly and get on with my day. A few blocks further down Pino Suarez is "el Pochote" organic market, a great place to get a variety of healthy food ranging from fresh fruits and vegetables, to organic coffee, home-made nopal and hibiscus jams, "salsas piquantes", and other imaginative culinary delights. Once I was certain that my  gastronomic needs would be met and I would not go into gourmand withdrawal, I was able to move forward with my projects.


I had already been in contact with el Centro de Esperanza Infantíl, a non-profit that works with street children. https://www.facebook.com/pages/Centro-de-Esperanza-Infantil-A-C/55554141467. I proposed to do a series of bookmaking workshops, and an illustrated journal workshop based on Marie's approach, but a la Deek. That means trusting that giving kids access to good materials and a little direction, they will take off on their own. And they usually do. I also seek out people who have artistic talents that they are willing to share, and have them in as "guest artists", with a small "a", of course! I am just finishing up an origami book project that will be a Christmas gift from the kids to their parents or loved ones. What took me much time and effort to perfect, the kids mastered in a half an hour! So I have given them the task of teaching newcomers to the group the "how to" part. Needless to say, they excel as teachers.

"Then you put the glue here.."
Shortly after my arrival, my friend, Demetrio, invited me to a sketching workshop he was giving for teachers. He had adapted Marie's approach and paid homage to her in the workshop, taking some direct quotes from her book. I was very touched to see Marie's  approach alive and well in Mexico. Marie had invited Demos and his two daughters, Itza and Erendira, to her Oaxaca workshop in 2009. It was a good fit for Demetrio, who despite much talent as a painter, lives the life of an artist with a small "a". The workshop was meant for teachers in rural areas, but I was most impressed by a young boy who had accompanied his mother. He jumped right into the activities and did the drawing to the right.
Beneath his drawing he wrote, "After picking up the book that my mother had just given me as a gift, I was so happy that I felt heat emanating from my hand."
Demos presenting sketching workshop
Oaxaca is a place where streets sing and people dance to the rythmn. There seems to be endless activity in the streets and parks of the Centro Historico. My nightly walk to the zocalo for my tamarindo nieve always includes a show of some kind. Sometimes it the evening sidewalk chess matches in front of la Catedral where passers by stop and contemplate moves along with the players. Other times it is a colorful evening procession, usually honoring one of the many Virgins that are revered here.

Don't move there!
But by far the most impressive celebration thus far has been la Fiesta de Nuestra Virgen de Guadalupe. A few blocks up Pino Suarez at Parque el Llano, is la Iglesia de Nuestra Señora de Guadalupe. For three days the park is filled with rides for children, an infinite number of food booths, religious souvenir booths with statues, rosaries and pictures of la Virgen. and my favorite, stalls where parents can have their children photographed with la Virgen. I will let the photographs speak for themselves. 
Niña Bendita

Virgin, Bless my Path

Juan Diego y su burro













Awaiting an apparition?
So my first month in Mexico ends on a clear note. Las calles cantan, la gente bailan, et je me regale! Virgencita, bendice mi camino!
Los Fotógrafos


Sunday, November 24, 2013

All Things Fall in Place


Huichol depiction of Life after Death
I hate departures, leaving people you care a lot for and at times wondering why you are leaving. I have done it enough times, however,  to believe that "vale la pena", that sometimes what you are feeling is growing pains, that what will come out of your experience will be worth it all. There is something very strong in Mexico that calls me. I like to think that in a past life I sculpted giant Olmec heads from massive stones in Tabasco, or rode the wind with Emiliano Zapata to save "La Patria". It feels like home .


Free Beer Tomorrow!
I arrived in DF at 5:37 am on Friday, November 15th. My friends, Sergio and Emma, had offered to let me stay in their apartment in San Angel for a few days to explore Mexico City, something that I have never really done. But between the red-eye flight with very little sleep and a chilly late November morning, "Kaboom", I fell prey to an authentic Mexican "catarro" (head cold) that put me out of commission before I began. But I pushed my better judgement aside and decided to explore anyway. It is hard not to succumb to the seductive calls of fresh fruit and jugo stands, Saturday craft markets in the plaza, and sidewalk cafes where a few ice cold Negra Modelos seemed to be the best medicine I could possibly find. 
I met my friend, Angeles, for lunch and, besides the ice cold Negra Modelos, I indulged in a lunch buffet of an "all you can eat" seafood spread that only the Mexicans can prepare. Chile rellenos stuffed with fresh tuna, shrimp sauteed in garlic, squid empanadas,Caramba! I hardly knew I was sick.
Jazz Players near the Zocolo
Sergio arrived from his home in Puebla the next morning to show me around. He took me to visit El Templo Mayor, an incredible museum built on the site of the ancient Aztec city of Tenochtitlan. Most of what was in the museum came from directly under the site, which is a block from the zocolo in the heart of DF! We surfed the pedestrian walkways from La Alameda to the Zocalo, caught in a wave of humanity out for a Saturday walk. There was movement and entertainment everywhere. I had hoped that the scorching midday sun,  massive quantities of chile de arból hot sauce, and ice cold Negra Modelos that I had consumed would knock my "catarro" right out of me, but no such luck. I went back to Puebla to Sergio and Emma's house with a very red nose and pockets bulging with saturated Kleenex.

Glass blower making Christmas ornaments
 The next day I boarded an ADO bus bound for Oaxaca. The bus had comfortable reclining seats with lots of leg room, drop down television screens that were showing episodes of Starsky and Hutch, and two bathrooms, one for men and one for women, a very desirable thing to have. If you have ever tried to pee in a moving bus on curvy, bumpy roads, you will know what I mean.

 I close this entry from my new apartment on Calle Pino Suarez in el Centro Historico de Oaxaca. The sky is cloudless, and the silence of Sunday morning fills the air. Time for a walk to the Zocolo for a glass of freshly squeezed orange juice or a fruit salad of papaya, piña, grapefruit, and mandarina to start the day. 

Perhaps I am just lucky, or perhaps it is my ancient ancestors here that are glad that I am back, but whenever I arrive in Mexico, I am amazed at how effortlessly all things fall in place.

Saturday, September 14, 2013

Altiplano Encounters




La Hacienda on the Road to Muñoz
Marie never tired of stopping to sketch the landscape of the high desert surrounding us. It was often on bicycle to Muñoz, a nearby pueblo, to check our e-mails at the butcher shop/internet café that the scene was most striking. I would often be in front, pedaling hard on the uphill slope in hopes of beating the mid morning heat. When I looked back, I would see Marie straddling her bicycle, sketchbook in hand, capturing the moment.
There were two roads leading to Muñoz, a little traveled, bumpy, dirt camino that was scenic and peaceful, unless, that is, a bull had gotten out of the corralled area that ran the length of the camino to Muñoz. It happened more than once. Several locals had warned us that if we encountered one bull in the road between our destination and us, we best turn around, and fast. A bull alone, it appears, is more likely to attack than bulls in a group. We never decided to see if that was true or not. The size of the creatures and the fact that el toro de lidia was raised to fight in the corridas, was enough proof for us.
The second route, the one most frequently taken, passed in front of an old hacienda before arriving at Muñoz. The bulls were usually in the pasture grazing, but the fences were sturdier and in better condition due to the fact that there was more traffic on the asphalt road. It was also a frequent watering point before starting an uphill pedal that could be quite tiring with the heat and the wind. Again, el Popo and Itza were often in view. There was starkness to the landscape, high desert terrain that was dry, and at times, extremely dusty. Yet there was a definite beauty to it, maguey and nopal cactus scattered about, heat waves quivering above the blacktopped road, and sheep and bulls grazing leisurely behind the hacienda fences. It made going to Muñoz a treat, a journey through a forgotten land that maintained an undeniable authenticity and flavor that characterized Tlaxcala. In the sketch at the top of this page Marie once again reflects: “When I am here, on the road to Muñoz, with this countryside in front of me, I know why I am here!"
Muñoz was a pueblo a bit larger than Atlangatepec. It had amenities that Atlanga did not: a bakery, a few small torta restaurants, a hardware store, and two butcher shops. One of these butcher shops belonged to our friend, Arturo. He had spent a few years in Chicago and enjoyed speaking a bit of English now and then. His brother, Luis, had a small internet café connected to the butcher shop, about eight computers that were all occupied once school was out at 1:00 pm. It was a surrealistic sight, a side of pork hanging from a hook through the doorway between the two businesses. Muñoz was situated at over 8,000 ft, and the cold wind that passed from the open butcher shop storefront through the internet café, keep the meat fresh and our stays short. It was convenient, however, when our dinner menu included carnitas, something Marie made once in a while, accompanied by a delicious pico de gallo made with cilantro and chiles manzano from the greenhouse in back of our house.
Marie's Laguna Sketch
The road going the other direction from Atlangatepec brought us to la Laguna, a bird refuge on the north side of the pueblo. We went there often on our bikes, passing in front of pastures of grazing bulls and an old hacienda situated in the high desert landscape surrounded by maguey and nopales. It was a very peaceful place with fantastic cloudscapes and locals out fishing in small rowboats among the high reeds where the birds nested and the fish sought cooler water. It was a place stuck in time, cowboys on horseback and shepherds sitting in the shade watching their animals graze without a care in the world. We would seek out the shade of a
Deek's Munoz & Laguna Sketches
juniper tree and start sketching. El Popo and I
Iztaccíhuatl were almost always in view. One day we met Jose, a young Tlaxcalteca on the road. He was a pulquero, a person who tended to the maguey plants and made pulque, a traditional alcoholic beverage that dates back to the Aztecs. We talked for a while and he invited us to taste some of his home brew, and we gladly accepted. In the sketch to below, Marie noted that as Jose took us around to see more of the plants, she stayed behind to draw the flower of the maguey, which from her perspective, seemed to emerge right out of “La Malinche”. Our day with Jose was one of those events that happened time and time again, a random encounter that led to a personal connection that endured.
Jose, el Pulquero

There were many such encounters in Atlangatepec that year. It was a very small pueblo, and being the only “gringos” in the area, we were under constant scrutiny. We wanted to meet people and become part of the community, something much more delicate and complicated than we had imagined. There were definite cultural stumbling blocks, and we tripped more than once in our effort to form friendships with the locals. But for the most part we were successful.
One of the first friendships formed was with Jema and Rafael (Rafa). They had a small dairy farm with about fifteen cows. We would walk to their farm to buy fresh milk and some of the delicious “queso frescos” (fresh cheeses) that Jema made. They also were “outsiders”, having moved to Atlanga fifteen years earlier to help establish an agricultural cooperative. When the project ended, they decided to stay on. Rafa was a veterinarian who turned his knowledge to raising dairy cows. Jema learned how to make the cheese and went door-to-door selling her products. Over time, we became good friends. Marie asked Jema if she could sketch her before we went back to the Sates, and Jema agreed.
Jema & Rafa
They invited us for dinner one night and after a delicious meal and a few shots of tequila, we went to the living room to listen to Rafa play music and for Marie to sketch Jema. On the page she wrote: “Gracias Jema for letting me sketch you. Sorry that I was not able to capture your true beauty. Gracias Rafael for sharing your love of the music and songs from Durango. And to both of you, gracias for your friendship”. She had a high quality copy made for them, put it in a simple frame, and gave it to them as a gift of our friendship. They were very touched. When I look at this sketch, I can still hear Rafa singing and taste the ricos taquitos that Jema prepared for us that night. The same is true of almost all of the sketches in Marie’s sketchbooks. They are moments captured with sensitivity, emotion, and simplicity that are timeless.
Chon & his Azteca Group
We also developed a strong friendship with Clara and Concepción (Chon) and their two young children. Clara raised chickens and eggs to sell in the organic market in Tlaxcala. Chon worked in his father’s fields growing organic vegetables. He had decided that he did not want to leave his pueblo to go to Canada to work like his brother. He preferred to have less money and live in a simple house instead of leaving his family for long periods to go to “el otro lado”. They struggled financially, but were happy. Chon was leader of an Aztec dance group that performed in nearby pueblos on special occasions. He invited us to a practice session at his house one afternoon.
We had been to their house several times before, but never to hear them play music. They told us that the music they were playing was to ask the gods for a bountiful harvest. Marie settled in to sketch and I to take photographs to give the group for promotional purposes. Chon’s daughter, Maria, sat next to Marie with her pencil and sketchbook. Under her sketch of Chon Marie wrote, “Maria is sitting next to me drawing. Too bad she doesn’t have the color pencils I gave her yesterday”. Maria sat intently and sketched her father and his friends. She captured them quite well. She had seen them play many times before, but perhaps this time she saw them in a new light.

Saturday, August 3, 2013

Reflections on Crossing Borders

(In Chiapas Women are Respected) Marie's La Palma sketch, March 2009
Crossing borders is a complicated and stressful event. There are geographical borders that require passports and visas, cultural borders that require sensitivity, respect, and good judgment, and the final border between life and death, that only requires letting go. 2009-2010 was a period of multiple border crossings for Marie and me. We traveled from the States to Mexico, Mexico to Guatemala, and eventually back to the US. We changed cultures frequently, being the “extranjeros” who tried to respectfully walk the thin line that divides one worldview from another. And in late 2010 we were confronted with the final border crossing that only one of us was going to make. That was a crossing that we did not look forward to. It was also the only crossing that we could not turn away from. 

In mid March 2009, we left our house in Atlangatepec, Tlaxcala, where we had been living for the past six months, headed for Guatemala to renew our visas. Our time in Mexico was two-thirds over. This stay in Mexico had been a mixed bag for Marie, full of highs and lows. She had not been feeling well the last few months, plagued by pains in her bones and back that worried us. A friend in Oaxaca, Juan Carlos, had organized a three-day sketching workshop there since we would be passing through on our way to Guatemala. Oaxaca was a logical stopping off point from Tlaxcala, a full day of travel from our house. It also had special importance to Marie. Juan Carlos was a homeopath and had offered to treat her when she was in Oaxaca. She was looking forward very much to the workshop and seeing Juan Carlos. She needed reassurance.

Patient in Juan Carlos' waiting room
The sketch to the left was done while we were waiting to see Juan Carlos the day after our arrival. Marie wrote on the page, "I am sketching, enjoying, I relax... I can see it in this page. Another example of drawing life the way it is." It remained unfinished as we were called into Juan Carlos' office. "I did not get to finish this woman", she continued, "but that is how it goes, that was the moment, this sketch will remain as it is. I have no desire to finish it." 

Deek's La Palma Sketch

Marie's session with Juan Carlos was encouraging and her workshop was a success. We hit the road for Tapachula rested and content. It was a long trip and we did not look forward to crossing the border there. We had heard too many disturbing stories of violent gang activity between Ciudad Hidalgo on the Mexican side of the border to Ciudad Tecún Umán in Guatemala. But despite a watch stolen off my wrist and a twenty dollar bribe to a Guatemalan immigration official, things went very well.

Jose, a friend in Tapachula, had directed us to an cooperative Eco-Reserve on the small island of La Palma near Acapetahua on Chiapas' Pacific coast. La Palma is situated between the open sea and a mangrove swamp, and historically the inhabitants of this two street island lived off of fishing. But due to overfishing and greed, it had become difficult to make a living that way now. Eco-tourism had became a promising alternative, and Jose was helping them promote it.

When we arrived we were the only guests in the three cabañas in the reserve. "Soon after we settle in, a woman comes with a broom in her hand. She starts sweeping the porch without a word.  I sit on the porch with my sketchbook, pens, and color pencils and ask the woman to stop sweeping. “ I can finish,” I say. She immediately stops, her hand leaning on her broom, and stares. I grab my pencil and ask her permission to draw her. She says yes with that puzzled look on her face. I can read her thought… why me? As always, her intense glare softens when she sees that my hand has drawn one of her eye, her forehead. Then she starts talking… Her name is Manuela.... 
Doña Francesca
And Manuela's story unfolds. Marie points out a paradox with the newspaper headline she has collaged: "On page twenty-one of the same paper, a picture appears of une femme fatale, blond of course, almost naked. An insult to women!”
(Excerpt from Marie's En Chiapas ... sketch above)

A friendship immediately struck up between Manuela and Marie. She invited us to her house for coffee and to meet her mother, Doña Francesca who was 102 years old. She was still active, helping prepare the morning fire, washing clothes, and cooking meals. Again Marie asked permission to sketch her, and she agreed. For the next hour she told stories of life on La Palma for the last one hundred years  as Marie sketched her. 

Since the cabañas had only a very basic kitchen, we often ate at Restaurant Yoli, the only restaurant on the island, and undoubtedly the best! It was owned and run by Ana, one of Manuela's friends and a member of the cooperative that ran the Eco-Reserve. Since we were the only guests on the island, we were also the only customers to eat there. There was always the catch of the day for lunch, and Ana was an exceptional cook! At night they sold carnitas and taquitos on the street and did quite a good business.   
Ana at Restaurant Yoli - La Palma

There were no good swimming beaches on the river near our cabaña. We arranged for one of Ana's relatives to take us in his lancha to a deserted beach on the open sea. From there we could walk a couple of hours to Playa Zacapulco, have dinner, and take a motorized canoe back to the village.
There was no one else in sight and we spent a good part of the day sketching and  beach combing.  When we got to Zacapulco we found a small beach restaurant owned by Doña Blanca. We had a nice cold beer, ordered some freshly caught sea bass and, of course, Marie sketched Doña Blanca as she told of her life on Playa Zacapulco. When we were done, we waited on the river for the canoe to come. It was the last one of the day, and there was no other way back.
Doña Blanca, Playa Zacapulco

As Marie sketched, I watched a group of young children playing on the beach. Their world was nestled in between the mangrove roots, their "gringita" dolls well cared for, and their beach kitchen not yet competing with Doña Blanca. But when Doña Blanca is no longer in her kitchen, I have no doubt that one of these young people will step forward and fill her pots with freshly caught fish and spicy shrimp cocktails.

Children at Playa Zacapulco
 Our trip continued on to San Cristobal, Palenque, Tabasco, Vera Cruz and back home to Atlangatepec. Marie's aches did not get better. We crossed the border back into the United States in June 2009. This is where we found out why her bones were aching. Her final border crossing was January 9, 2011. We were all there to bid her farewell. She was able to let go. As Marie would say, "That's the way it goes. Another example of  life the way it is."



Dos corazones volando - La Palma, 2009